How Many Kegels a Day Should a Man Do?
Most guidance comes to about 30 squeezes a day: 8 to 12 slow squeezes, 3 times a day, holding each for 3 to 10 seconds. Cleveland Clinic puts it as 10 Kegels, 3 times a day, 30 in total. There is a ceiling too: a Mayo Clinic Health System physical therapist says more than 40 a day, or holds longer than 10 seconds, will tire the muscles.
What do the main health sources say?
Seven well-known sources agree on the shape: slow squeezes, a few sets a day, every day, for months. They differ on the count, the hold and the upper limit. No single number is official.
| Source | Squeezes per set | Hold | Sets per day | For how long | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Cleveland Clinic | 10 | 5 s, rest 5 s. Build to 10 s, rest 10 s. | 3 (30 total) | Possibly for life | Too many can make symptoms worse. |
| Mayo Clinic | Build to 10 to 15 | 3 s, rest 3 s | At least 3 (30 to 45 or more once built up) | A lasting daily habit | Lying down may be easiest at first. Later, one set each lying, sitting and standing. |
| Mayo Clinic Health System | 10 | 3 to 4 s, rest one breath. Build to 10 s. | 4 (40 total) | Daily | Over 40 a day, or holds over 10 s, tire the muscles. |
| MedlinePlus | 10 | 3 to 5 s, rest 3 to 5 s | 3 (30 total) | Keep going | Do not increase how many you do. |
| North Bristol NHS | 5 slow, building to 10 slow; plus 10 fast | Slow: build to 10 s, rest 5 s. Fast: about 1 per second. | 3 (30 slow and 30 fast, 60 total) | Up to 3 to 6 months, then once a day for life | Leaflet written for men. |
| NICE NG123 | At least 8 | Not stated | 3 (24 or more) | At least 3 months, supervised | Written for women with bladder leakage. |
| RACGP HANDI | 8 to 12, near maximal | 6 to 8 s, rest a few seconds | 1 to 3 (8 to 36) | 3 months or more | Written for women. Supervised training does better. |
| Kegel Hero (Classic plan) | 12 slow and 10 quick; 15 slow and 10 quick from week 13 | 3 s (or your “Find your hold” pick), 1 s longer every 7 training days, up to 10 s. At most 6 s lying, 8 s sitting. Rest as long as the hold, at least 5 s. | 3 (36 slow and 30 quick, 66 total), then 1 (25 total) | 12 weeks, then once a day | 36 slow holds a day is under the Mayo Clinic Health System’s 40. Counting quick squeezes, 66 is over it. No sensor. A training guide, not a medical treatment. |
How long should you hold each Kegel?
Start short: 3 seconds (Mayo Clinic), 3 to 4 (Mayo Clinic Health System), 3 to 5 (MedlinePlus) or about 5 (Cleveland Clinic). Then build toward 10 seconds (Cleveland Clinic, North Bristol NHS, Mayo Clinic Health System). None of these seven sources go past 10.
Rest between squeezes. Cleveland Clinic has you rest as long as you hold: 5 seconds with 5, and 10 with 10. North Bristol NHS uses a 5-second rest, whatever the hold.
Keep breathing during every squeeze. Do not hold your breath, push down or brace your stomach. For the full technique, see how to do Kegels for men.
What about quick squeezes?
North Bristol NHS adds 10 fast squeezes per set, about 1 per second, and says to do both slow and fast. It is the only one of the seven sources that includes quick squeezes.
How do you build up, week by week?
None of the seven sources gives a weekly schedule. Most follow a similar order:
- Find the right muscle. About 40% of people do not do a Kegel correctly the first time, says the Mayo Clinic Health System therapist. See how to find your pelvic floor muscles.
- Start lying down or sitting. Mayo Clinic says lying down may be easiest at first. Cleveland Clinic and North Bristol NHS suggest starting seated.
- Start with fewer squeezes. North Bristol NHS starts with 5 slow ones, then moves to 10.
- Add hold time slowly, as it gets easier (North Bristol NHS, Mayo Clinic Health System).
- Add standing as your muscles get stronger (Mayo Clinic, North Bristol NHS).
- Then stop adding. MedlinePlus says to keep going but not to increase how many you do.
Should you do Kegels every day?
Yes. Every source we read describes a daily habit, and none build in rest days. North Bristol NHS says 3 times a day for up to 3 to 6 months, then once a day for life. NICE and HANDI both describe programs of at least 3 months. See how long Kegels take to work.
Can you do too many Kegels?
Yes. Cleveland Clinic says too many can raise muscle tension or worsen symptoms: “It’s better to do fewer Kegels properly than to perform lots of Kegels incorrectly.” MedlinePlus warns that overdoing it can cause straining on the toilet.
Sources disagree on the upper limit. The Mayo Clinic Health System therapist says more than 40 a day, or holds over 10 seconds, tire the muscles. Her 40 are slow holds. She does not mention quick squeezes. North Bristol NHS has men do 30 slow and 30 fast a day, 60 in all. The most common count is 30 slow squeezes a day, shared by Cleveland Clinic, MedlinePlus and North Bristol NHS.
Two more cautions from us:
- Do not add sets or hold longer than your routine says. Overdoing it can make you strain when you pee or poo.
- If you have pelvic, genital or rectal pain, pain when you ejaculate, or chronic prostatitis, hold off on squeezing exercises. Strengthening can make some pelvic pain worse. See a doctor or a pelvic health physical therapist first.
What are the signs of overdoing Kegels?
The sources name only a few:
- Tired muscles (Mayo Clinic Health System). Cleveland Clinic says to stop if you get tired.
- Straining when you pee or poo (MedlinePlus).
- More muscle tension, or worse symptoms (Cleveland Clinic).
- Pain after Kegels. Cleveland Clinic says to stop.
If Kegels hurt, stop and talk to a doctor. For the other signs, do fewer or shorter squeezes.
When to see a doctor
Cleveland Clinic says to contact a provider if Kegels cause pain, or if symptoms do not start to improve after 6 to 8 weeks. From our safety notes:
- Squeezing should never hurt. Stop if you feel pain, and tell your doctor.
- See a doctor soon if you have blood in your urine, pain or burning when you pee, a fever, a weak stream, trouble emptying your bladder, or you cannot pee.
- After prostate surgery, do not train while you have a catheter. Restart only when your surgical team says it is OK.
- Erection problems can be an early sign of heart or blood-vessel disease. See a doctor to get checked, even if training helps.
How Kegel Hero fits
Kegel Hero is an iPhone app, coming soon to the App Store, that paces a routine like these. Its default Classic plan is 3 sessions a day for 12 weeks. Each session has 12 slow holds and 10 quick squeezes. That is 36 slow holds and 30 quick squeezes a day, 66 in all. From week 13, it is 1 session a day of 15 slow holds and 10 quick squeezes.
How that compares: 36 slow holds is a little more than the 30 of Cleveland Clinic, MedlinePlus and North Bristol NHS, and under the Mayo Clinic Health System’s 40. North Bristol NHS also has quick squeezes: 30 fast a day. Counted together, 66 a day is over 40. The Mayo Clinic Health System advice counts only slow holds, so it does not say where quick squeezes fit. A second plan, Steady Strength, has no quick squeezes: 15 slow holds 3 times a day for 8 weeks (45 a day, also over 40), then 15 once a day.
Holds start at 3 seconds, or at the hold you pick in “Find your hold”. They get 1 second longer every 7 training days, up to 10 seconds. In the Classic plan they stay at 6 seconds or less lying down, and 8 or less sitting. Missed days pause the plan: it moves on only on days you train. The app has no sensor, so it cannot check your squeeze. It has no account, and your data stays on your iPhone. Planned US price: weeks 1–2 free, then $19.99 once, no subscription.
Questions
Is one set of 30 Kegels better than 3 sets of 10?
No source we read compares the two. Most split the day into sets, most often 3, and HANDI allows 1 to 3. Cleveland Clinic and MedlinePlus spread 3 sets of 10 across the morning, afternoon and evening.
Should I do Kegels every day?
Yes. Most sources say 3 times a day at first. North Bristol NHS later drops to once a day for life.
How long should I hold each Kegel?
Start at 3 to 5 seconds (MedlinePlus) and build toward 10 (Cleveland Clinic). Cleveland Clinic has you rest as long as you held. Holds over 10 seconds tire the muscles (Mayo Clinic Health System).
What if I miss a day of Kegels?
No source we read covers this. Our advice: start again the next day at your usual amount, and do not double up.
Sources
- Cleveland Clinic: Kegel Exercises for Men 10 Kegels, 3 times a day; 5 s holds building to 10 s.
- Mayo Clinic: Kegel exercises for men: Understand the benefits 3 s holds; at least 3 sets a day, building to 10 to 15 each; lying down may be easiest at first.
- Mayo Clinic Health System: Kegels are for men too Physical therapist Angela Imhoff: 4 sets of 10; over 40 a day, or holds over 10 s, tire the muscles.
- MedlinePlus: Kegel exercises, self-care 10 squeezes, 3 times a day; 3 to 5 s holds; do not increase.
- North Bristol NHS Trust: Pelvic floor exercises for men 10 slow and 10 fast, 3 times a day, then once a day for life.
- NICE guideline NG123: Urinary incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse in women: management Recommendations 1.4.4 to 1.4.7: at least 8 contractions, 3 times a day, for at least 3 months.
- RACGP HANDI: Pelvic floor muscle training: urinary incontinence 8 to 12 near-maximal 6 to 8 s squeezes, 1 to 3 times a day, for 3 months or more.